RefinedOne

Ishmael!

In Children, Choice, Courage, Crisis, Encouragement, Family, Forgiveness, God, Kindness, Life, Love, Mercy, Parenthood, Purpose, Relationship, Self esteem, Slavery, woman on May 24, 2007 at 8:23 pm

Birthing Ishmael!

We all will experience hurts, disappointments and even betrayal by the ones we love and trust sometime in our journey of life. I guess that is why it is a journey of many paths… We will come to crossroads and have to choose what direction is best to travel, some may be roads well travelled, so you  have an idea of what may lay ahead others may be uncharted territory, one you would have to trail blaze yourself and some may just be wrong to walk!

Relationships become important, close ones became valuable and relied on, we’ll sometimes let others lead us down there path, let them set the tone or pace  of your journey, until things start taking a turn for the worst and the feeling of trust gets violated, love broken. We start to loose the lustre in the relationship.  You just want to give up  trying  any longer, and for the moment to ease the pain….To ease what ever pressure you long for, a soothing ointment ( could  be drink, drugs, work or in the arms of another) but not the true “balm”. But we know we need soothing, release for the moment!

It is at this point I say call out! shout out! even cry out! to the one that has a greater and better view of your journey. The one that created and knows you ….Please! Do not faint, for in your  weakness is when He shows up in His strength on your behalf.
 Do not miss your call, purpose, and destiny by selling your birthright for a morsel of porridge (instant gratification).  Do not walk in bitterness, unforgiveness and resentment for this will only birth more pain and revenge, but wait!…………. Less we birth “an Ishmael”

What is birthing an Ishmael you say……

You will have to go the bible and read the book of Genesis 16-21.

To paraphrase …. Abraham and his wife Sarah  were very old and had no child of there own, but were promised by God that they would have a child. In the impatience of Sarah, she encouraged her husband to bear a child with her maidservant called Hagar; she gave birth to Ishmael meaning God hears. By the time Ishmael was a teen  Sarah took in and gave birth to her son called Isaac (you see Gods word never goes back to Him unfulfilled) ;)
Sarah later made her husband send Hagar and her son Ishmael away, cos she felt had become a treat to Isaac her son and cos Hagar had taunted her all the years after Ishmael was born….
Today the trouble in the Middle East between Israel and the Palestine is all a result of Sarah’s impatience.

Let us not in our pain, heartache and weakness  take the law /retribution, payback, revenge in our own hands….
The Journey is long with bends and turns,  up’s and down’s, the bumps on the road are many!
Be encouraged!

*an Ishmael*………….a temporal solution that could cause long term damage.

  1. Amen! A very timely post for me.

  2. A very insightful post. My best wishes.

  3. Refined one, so true. Sometimes, we are tempted to take the easy way out and forget about the ramifications of our actions. One should tread carefully, life is not always what it seems to be.

  4. true words, refined one. We shouldn’t always seek instant gratification.

  5. I guess “birthing an Ishmael” is self-explanatory…thanks for stopping by guys
    @ Bonita, Surjit , waffy and Laspapi :)

  6. Can I say this post made me chuckle…it is OK to laugh @ myself, right lol? A beautiful reminder RO…and reflection of growth.

  7. Bless your heart – as you have blessed and strengthened mine with this post.

  8. @ Ashe. hmm.. i wonder :) you go for it girl. Glad it bless you.
    @DC. I thank God for that!

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